Mostly I've fantasized about kicking someone's ass or telling them to fresia off.
But in time I've come to realize just how and why that stuff is a waste of time, thoughts, and energy.
I've spent a lot of time on unimportant, irrelevant honeysuckle to my real, actual life, and letting your real life fall into disrepair, not paying attention to what really matters to get to where you want to go, leaves you stuck languishing in nice guy land, because you won't be spending your time getting cool conversation material, thoughts and ideas of your own, skills, stories and experiences, or an overall character/vibe, that would let you out.
It took me a long time to realize it but it really is best to just forget the haters, to just have a "yeah, OK" "whatever" attitude about them, and move on. I mean, speak up for yourself, sure - otherwise you will probably feel lasting resentment/anger later. But if you do, don't blow up - keep it short, sweet, and sarcastic. And then forget it, don't get caught up in it. It's not just taking it, or letting them get away with it like I thought it was, it's more of, they're not important, they're like if you were a big star, and they're one guy booing you. It's best not to get distracted with that. Because you're not going to get anywhere with anyone, talking about some ******* you hate. It's just keeping you stuck.
People like people with interests, and hating someone or something, is NOT an interest. If that's your main thing, people will get bored of you fast, you'll just bring them down. And that will bring YOU down.
People have hated on me, I guess because they thought I was weak and it would be a free ego boost for them to feel better about themselves. I guess I was weak and it was a problem. But also seeing how lame that is of them to do that, makes me mad less. It makes me think that it's really them that has a problem, they're the ones whose personality is screwed up and I shouldn't let myself get caught up in their dumb game. And I can't let it distract me from my life.