Paraiyar said:
TheRealCallie said:
So I guess it would have been more responsible for me to stay in my abusive marriage?
He did acknowledge in his post that: "Of course if it absolutely needs to happen then it absolutely does."
Okay, I admit I missed that part, but it doesn't change much.
I was still married, I do have kids, I have been in a few relationships in my life. The OP is judging everyone who has a past, everyone who made a mistake and ruling them less than people who have stayed single all their lives.
Yes, a good share of divorced people likely went into the marriage for stupid reasons, but that doesn't mean everyone did. That doesn't mean that it was a mistake or the person is ruined for it.
So, what about widows...where do they rank? You may find people who used to be married, but you have no idea what happened and to judge them all equally is wrong.
But anyway, back to the OP, could this bother you because you are jealous that they had the relationships and you didn't? Or maybe even angry because you want it and they just threw it away?
As I said, you are entitled to feel as you wish, but to flat out generalize everyone and insult them is wrong. That's the only thing I have a problem with in that thread.