Regumika
Well-known member
perhaps the real discussion is the double standard here.
lets start with the men. they want women that are attractive, not clumsy, not crazy, not a drama queen, not unreasonable, to list a few. right? this is the stereotypical man. (there are ALWAYS exceptions, so lets not go there, plus exceptions arent majority and im focusing on the majority)
now for the women. They want men that are attractive, independent, not stupid, understanding, caring, kind, not a butthole, reliable, and does not have crazy fetishes, and will love her for who she is.
so, typically, why is it okay for women to be picky about men, but men cant be picky about women? like, women would cry about finding this one attractive man, understands, cares, blah blah blah BUT... he has this one issue (say anger or depression).
because what seems to me is that it is okay for a woman with shortcomings to find a prince charming, but its not okay for a man with issues to find a princess. what gives?
poor little girl had a bad life, so? just find that one guy that will take care of you! just love him!
poor man with a bad life, so? find that perfect girl who will take care... oh wait, she wouldnt want a guy like him. he has issues. she can do so much better.
lets start with the men. they want women that are attractive, not clumsy, not crazy, not a drama queen, not unreasonable, to list a few. right? this is the stereotypical man. (there are ALWAYS exceptions, so lets not go there, plus exceptions arent majority and im focusing on the majority)
now for the women. They want men that are attractive, independent, not stupid, understanding, caring, kind, not a butthole, reliable, and does not have crazy fetishes, and will love her for who she is.
so, typically, why is it okay for women to be picky about men, but men cant be picky about women? like, women would cry about finding this one attractive man, understands, cares, blah blah blah BUT... he has this one issue (say anger or depression).
because what seems to me is that it is okay for a woman with shortcomings to find a prince charming, but its not okay for a man with issues to find a princess. what gives?
poor little girl had a bad life, so? just find that one guy that will take care of you! just love him!
poor man with a bad life, so? find that perfect girl who will take care... oh wait, she wouldnt want a guy like him. he has issues. she can do so much better.