Some men have this look, like they work out their upper arms, but seem ignore their forearms. I find this gross. Overly arrogant men are a total turn off, if one has to tell about how great they are, they probably arent great at all. Generally I am not attracted to overweight men, I am fit, and very active in my day to day life and would expect the same of any man I am with. Any sort of racism or bigotry is a huge turn off to me. Of course any sort of abusive behavior is an immediate deal breaker.
A man who is educated, and always strives to better himself is important. I like manly man, one who likes to take charge and make decisions, but its a fine line between being manly, and being a control freak. A real man knows when to step back and let the lady take charge, I guess that would be the give and take of a good relationship.
I don't know, things like that.