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Being ugly
#71
People only care about the inner when they already like the outer.
Loneliness of spirit is discovered in our depths.
Sometimes, when we least expect it, loneliness freezes us.
Or perhaps it feels like the bottom dropping out of our being.
We feel incomplete, as if something important is missing.
We feel shaky and insecure inside, weak and 'clingy'.
Sometimes this gnawing deficiency makes us want to 'devour' others
—to get as much of them as possible,
to complete our egos by possessing them.
Or we might seek to be supported and protected by others.
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#72
(11-14-2017, 06:43 AM)Xpendable Wrote: People only care about the inner when they already like the outer.

Not really. It's possible to care about someone before even knowing what they look like.
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(11-14-2017, 06:43 AM)Xpendable Wrote: People only care about the inner when they already like the outer.

It's more that they 'see' good traits in attractive people they want to see them in.
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(11-15-2017, 04:40 PM)M_also_lonely Wrote: [Image: aaaaaaaaa.png]

This is very true. It's okay and even healthy to vent for the sake of venting, but remember that it doesn't solve anything. And sometimes venting can give way to a bitter sense of entitlement, which is very destructive.
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