viviana said:
I wonder why guys would not talk to me and ask me out, they only flirt and wink but never approach me. like i have some kind of invisible wall that prevent them from getting closer.
possible reason for that is your probably very beautiful inside
and out. As you stated over and over again you tell yourself that
you're beautiful and you know that you're beautiful. The self confidence
and respect for yourself....Truns on a lot of guys but it scars the living
honeysuckle out of them.
thin themselves.
Relationships usually last longer than 3 sec.
Err wtf...a person can go round and round, read and write books about how to get a girl in 3.sec. WTF havn't they heard charm and carisma?lol
I guess ya gatta read differnent books of how to keep a girl after the 3. sec.lmao
second...you're not going to do one night stands, which is in your best interest.
Men that arn't ready for a commitment knows that, so they don't bother or just flirt becuase that's about as far as they're going to get.
wow, i don't feel so very hopeful anymore
i can see where you going with this and your advice are from experience i see. but i am gonna have to say this one is not cutting it for me. i don't blame you i think everyone have different experiences in life and therefore different opinion on things. i just want to make sure i understand what you saying, if you don't mind.
i have to reiterate that i was conceited before knowing i was beautiful and did not need to be told that to be sure (although i liked it) but i am not sure i have been all that beautiful, really. that was way before when i was a gullible adolescent. i am older now.AND put on weight, i wouldn't tell myself i am pretty and forget those guys who don't thinks so. even though i want to believe that, it feels nice to hear someone say it, even if i am not interested in that person, nowadays.
i mean i know how you talk about things so is not such a surprise that you feel that way about my situation. are you basically telling me that most of these guys that i see are all ******** who are only looking for one night stand and nothing else. gosh that just so sad to hear, so then i guess i have to become a floozy sso i can get some action otherwise i won't find this Mr impossible that share all that i am looking for that are in the best of my interest.
i also have to rectify, knowing that i am not the best catch now i'll settle for anything right now. only one thing that's stopping me is that i would not want to sleep with the biggest jerk, from my work place on a one night stand because after finding out this virgin mary "was really exactly not the sleeping around kind" i would make the news in the whole entire mall for as long as i work there.
about now i really wouldn't mind having a one night stand, if it's not going to turn around and bite me in the ass, i just choose who i think is really worth that, and i see good in people, if they only had given me a chance, i wouldn't be all that harsh to them for not wanting to settle down and commit to me already. i am not that stupid. and i am tired of waiting also so i wouldn't make someone wait until many dates to know what i am about, and whether i tend to go there or not.
it's easy to see how the world operate now, and who someone is, i think there are guys who actually want to start at least with a date first before they get to sex.
the guys i am talking about are not all about one night stand either, because i see that they provide themselves with a girlfriend few weeks later and they seem to treat the girl right, all pda and stuff. and they don't change them every week either.
i am not a conservative, but i am not a slut either, and i think it doesn't matter what i wear or how i carry myself i think all girls deserve a little respect from guys who think they are sexy, gees it;s not so hard to share a meal with someone before you can tell them you want to sleep with them.
i feel like it's no wonder all women are seen as slut because if they are not then they will die alone because guys don't need nothing else from a pretty girl but sex, if women are not flashing the right signals that they will sleep with a guy in a heart beat, then forget it. it must be about commitment.
i really do find this very sad and disturbing that you almost read me like an open book but not quite. i am not all about commitment, so enlighten me if you don't mind.