I'm gonna try to pick up a girl in a bar tomorrow night...

[Mr. Sir]

Lol, Nerdy.

Hey, yah, sure I'm going to a bar to just sit there by myself.

Secondly, you do realize that my anxiety in talking to women is so high, so why on earth do people have the impression that just because I have views shaped by the fact that women in the past have been really nasty to me because I haven't had a particular image that I go up to women and start talking misogyny.

That argument makes no sense because you have to understand that it would be impossible for me to tell a woman that I "have a bad attitude towards women" considering I can't even get five words out.

Why are you not able to get more than five words out? And I'm pretty certain you don't have to tell anyone you have a bad attitude. You pretty much show it, and have it in your aura.

It's called anxiety. Please stop trying to make me out to be this evil piece-of-honeysuckle scumbag because I suffer from anxiety and sexual frustration.

 

[oarivan]

I can barely say 'hi' myself. This is terrible because it limits my chance to come of as a total ass by asking her to make me a sammich. Good luck in your pursuit. Here's hoping you have a better experience than me.

 

[yesm]

like it or not... the social sexual world is a world of competition...

name for me one animal (mammals) not insects or greedy pests like that... name me one animal thatdoesn't have some sort of (right of passage) into sexual maturity as well as some sort of fight for dominance over the right to mate with a female...

There are people in this world who for whatever reason, will not be blessed with the greatest of loves in their life or are completely unable to reproduce all to-gether.. honeysuckle happens life isn't fair.. what have you... also for many it's a personal choice

We all know there are straight people homosexual individuals as well as bisexual individuals... i think many people forget about the "nosexuals" obviousy no sexuals would be preists... monks the like... but do u think every preist and every monk honestly... if they coudl go back... chose that life all over again??? so it would seem then we are all given as much as we need to survive as the universe can provide us with and that's about it...

Now as far as the socio-sexual world...

I will give my expierences...

For me I have been blessed with decent looks... i'm not playgirl bunny... u wuldn't catch me with the confidence to earn thouasands each week stripping or being an escort (although that would be hella awesome)...

Infact I almost wonder sometimes how it is i'm not gay... I'm very comfortable with my fe-male side... more so then most women i've dated even (100% fact)... so even having good looks doesn't gauruntee you honeysuckle if you arn't willing to fight for the right to be sexual (figuratively speaking in a way)... and talking to girls... well if i have no interest in them... peace of cake... i'm practicaly one of the girls except get teased even more then the guys tease the girls.. (girls are mean plane and simple...Bruce lee could kick anyone's ass, but i bet his wife wore the pance all up and down sideways and a little to the left 99% of the time outside of Bruce's work life...

Suffice to say in short words... if your going to a bar to find love... it's obvious the intentions of everyone there... and if you are drunk enough and find yourself in the company of another who is (drunk enough) as well... honeysuckle you might get lucky... you might also get the clap too so wear a condom... but anyway...

Talking being the hard part... let me put it to you this way...

let's say (you prolly already went but)... lets say you went.... got piss drunk spilled a drink on a girl who wasn't even interested in you and probably your only hope of getting laid and to top it off her boyfriend happened to own the club and had you personally (thrown) out the door...

worst case scenario right??? THAT'S ONE ******* DAY... ONE BAD DAY IN YOUR LIFE...

If you give something your best... and it isn't good enough... the reward is knowing you had the god **** BALLS to ******* try it anyway and say ya know what... i fuckin' did what i said i was gunna do... nobody can deny me that...

Life is about risk and love and even just sex is a WHOLE different ball game... most people find out that when they finnaly do get the relationship they always wanted.... that's it's so ******* ANNOYING when the **** woman want's to cuddle with you and fall asleep in your arms and your not ******* tired.... i can't tell you.. well suffice to say... it's fuckin' over-rated...

Also, plain and simple... alot of women are just MEAN... I understand some men are abusive ******** yes we all know one and everyone puts up with it way more then they should... but when a woman is mean... she can't just be mean... she has to be sociopathicly CRUEL... women don't always like to recall the fact that men have evolutionaryily become completely useless...

if women really wanted too they could take over the world.. kill allthe men... and reproduce through test-tubes... (we have the technology)... seriously...

so when a woman turns down your best efforts... brush it off... ain't no thing about it... cuz there is no shortage of women... and certainly no shortage of women who will take advantage of a nice guy...

So don't be an *******, but don't be nicer then you should be just cuz tits and ass... behind all that they have a brain 2 eyes 2 ears 1 nose and some skin to hold it all in like everyone else... they are not gods... cute yes... sweet sometimes maybe, but when hormones are raging and it comes down to deciding who gets to live and who gets to die... they make that choice... sometimes everyday in a scenario flirtatious socio-sexual type of way if they have alot of competition for their genetics...

Go to the bar to drink... not to meet women... and if a girl is drunk enough and seems harmless enough... take a chance...

i however don't waste time at the bars...

i'd rather die a wasted seed content with myself... then to give this crappy universe my continued efforts through the birthing of more poor souls who will be forced to live in this immature round and rotting honeysuckle hole...

and from a positive perspective... if sex is all that matters... ya know... just being able to die knowing you got to at least know what that was like... thats not hard to acheive...

to be perfectly honest... if i was a virgin right now.. i'd have a 25K+ job a year by now and my life would makesense and have true meaning, but i haven't cut my cock off yet so... yeah...

I've had drugs better then any sex ANY girl has EVER given me though... plus most of the time most women make you do all the work anyway and then ***** about how their back hurts and they want a massage and how you should cut your liver out and let them eat crackers over it for a bit just cuz and that's why... ya know what i mean...

So my advice... bars are for drinking... true it's hard to just have somewhere to meet people these days cuz everyone is afraid of terrorists and germs and breathable air and water with a PH slightly above 7 and blah blah blah... but blah soon enough we will all be machines and we won't have to worry about any of this crap anyway...

Sorry to ramble socratesX, but i just read your last post and felt i had to ramble a bit... there was a great war between men and women... a subtle war that still rumbles softly in the night, but these days... it's more often men that are persecuted then women...

i have yet to find a women who can say with confidence she finds the male body beautiful... as a great comedian put it... if a guy walked around with short shorts on that said JUICY onthe back... think he would get away with it like all these little sluts... you'd be suprised how many women u can get to fall for you just by making it so blatently clear that not only are you not interested in them when 99% of all the other guys are, but that you find the woman repulsive... not in her physical beauty... but in the way you would feel if you bit into an apple expecting it to be real... only to find it was a fake hollow plastic shell devoid of any true meaning and created for the sole purpose of makingsomething else look less empty....

hang in there bro... there is more to life then the socio-sexual circuit... and if you want to be a decent competitor... women dno't care about looks as much as they'd have you think... women care more about "security" (who will protect my babies while i'm vulnerable during their nurturing) i don't mean that litteraly as much as i do metaphoricaly, but that's basicaly what it comes down to... even if it's just meaningless sex cuz as far as our genetics know it's still theonly way to keep us alive as a whole...

 

[EveWasFramed]

And people with that sort of attitude wonder why they can't find a meaningful relationship? Oh please.

 

[cheaptrickfan]

I want to gouge my eyes out after that: sociopathically cruel, sluts, mean, tits-and-ass, repulsive, *****-whine-moan. Jesus Christ.

 

[Badjedidude]

^^^I was fearing a CTFnuke or something when I read that post up there.

And yet secretly I hoped for one. hehe

P.S. And I will lend some MALE weight to the issue here. Yesm, your tone is not at all helpful or justifiable or correct in any way. There's just so much hate and bitterness in your post, it's hard to answer your erroneous claims one-by-one. So I'll just put it this way:

NO.

 

[cheaptrickfan]

^^^I was fearing a CTFnuke or something when I read that post up there.

And yet secretly I hoped for one. hehe

BJD honestly, I did not know where the hell to begin. I think I'm getting too old for this honeysuckle.... or maybe it's the heat getting to me. ;-)

 

[Badjedidude]

Haha nooo I feel the same. I edited my above post to reflect that. There's just too much ground to cover! heh

 

[cheaptrickfan]

Haha nooo I feel the same. I edited my above post to reflect that. There's just too much ground to cover! heh

May as well try to empty the ocean with a thimble. Yep. Today, I opt for sanity in all of my actions.

 

[Badjedidude]

^^^I think I'll join you on that particular stretch of road. ^_^

 

[EveWasFramed]

BJD honestly, I did not know where the hell to begin. I think I'm getting too old for this honeysuckle.... or maybe it's the heat getting to me. ;-)

lmfao...which is the EXACT reason I didn't say more than I did - I just couldnt even fathom where to BEGIN. lol

 

[andrew732]

Are we ever gonna find out what happened with the OP?

 

[cheaptrickfan]

^^^I think I'll join you on that particular stretch of road. ^_^

That is a very lonely stretch of road, most days.

BJD honestly, I did not know where the hell to begin. I think I'm getting too old for this honeysuckle.... or maybe it's the heat getting to me. ;-)

lmfao...which is the EXACT reason I didn't say more than I did - I just couldnt even fathom where to BEGIN. lol

Some things are too big to contemplate.

Are we ever gonna find out what happened with the OP?

I'm sure he'll come back around and post about it either way, good or bad.

 

[AFrozenSoul]

I am too lazy to read the whole thread. How is this one going?

 

[nerdygirl]

I'm intrigued by the fact that I can't tell whether you're being sarcastic or not.

I cannot be sarcastic when the Great Pumpkin is involved.

 

[Mr. Sir]

Oh hey guys...

Nah, I didn't pick up anybody, but that's probably what you expected. I had a good time though. My friend from the internet's ID expired so I always had to go into the bars and casinos alone and felt kinda nervous that my friend would be kicked out and arrested for being on the floor with an expired ID. My other friend was too selfish to hang out and concentrated his time gambling.

Anyway, I mostly saw women with jocks, thugs, and pretty boys, so sooner or later as my muscles become more toned (they look really good these days) and I make more money to buy cool clothes and pay off this car loan, I will probably get more women. It's what my PUAs tell me to do.

 

[EveWasFramed]

Anyway, I mostly saw women with jocks, thugs, and pretty boys, so sooner or later as my muscles become more toned (they look really good these days) and I make more money to buy cool clothes and pay off this car loan, I will probably get more women. It's what my PUAs tell me to do.

But...wouldn't that make you exactly what you despise? A "jock, thug or pretty boy?"

 

[Mr. Sir]

Anyway, I mostly saw women with jocks, thugs, and pretty boys, so sooner or later as my muscles become more toned (they look really good these days) and I make more money to buy cool clothes and pay off this car loan, I will probably get more women. It's what my PUAs tell me to do.

But...wouldn't that make you exactly what you despise? A "jock, thug or pretty boy?"

No, not really. I don't care. I need a woman to prove I'm not gay or a perv, so I think I'll become a thug. I don't blame women for liking those guys anyway. They can't control it.

 

[EveWasFramed]

Anyway, I mostly saw women with jocks, thugs, and pretty boys, so sooner or later as my muscles become more toned (they look really good these days) and I make more money to buy cool clothes and pay off this car loan, I will probably get more women. It's what my PUAs tell me to do.

But...wouldn't that make you exactly what you despise? A "jock, thug or pretty boy?"

No, not really. I don't care. I need a woman to prove I'm not gay or a perv, so I think I'll become a thug. I don't blame women for liking those guys anyway. They can't control it.

Wait...all of this it to simply find some random woman to have sex with, just to prove you aren't gay or a perv? Is that what you're saying?

 

[Badjedidude]

No, not really. I don't care. I need a woman to prove I'm not gay or a perv, so I think I'll become a thug. I don't blame women for liking those guys anyway. They can't control it.

LOL wtf? wow... there's just...

I don't even know how to respond to that. I guess I'll pull out an oldie (but a goodie):

NO.